where am I supposed to place the axle stands?


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...I just don't really want to be crushed.
And another question: I actually had to use the cars hydraulics to get it high enough to even place the carjack und the frame. And when the wheel lifted off from the ground it sounded like the hydraulics were loosing pressure. After I had finished wondering like a numbskull what to do next I let the car drop and then it was around mid height. At the back it was still at high. Is this normal?
I know, I'm making progress at the speed of light with this car, taking huge leaps every day and mastering every obstacle with ease.